Why do people in the Lord’s recovery say “Amen” in the meetings so much?

Answer from ChatGPT:

In the Lord’s recovery, “Amen” is used very frequently because it is understood not merely as a way of ending a prayer, but as a way of actively responding to the Lord and agreeing with what is being spoken.

The practice has several layers:

1. Biblical meaning: “Amen” basically means “truly,” “surely,” or “so be it.” It is a Hebrew word carried directly into the New Testament. When someone says “Amen,” they are affirming, “Yes, this is true,” or “May this be so.”

2. A corporate response: Recovery meetings emphasize that the church is not primarily an audience listening to one person minister. Everyone is encouraged to function. Saying “Amen” is a very simple way for everyone to participate.

3. Affirming the Lord rather than merely the speaker: Ideally, when someone shares something concerning Christ or the Word, the “Amen” is directed toward what is true of the Lord—not simply, “I agree with that brother.”

4. Praying with the speaker: If someone prays, “Lord, we love You and want to enjoy You more,” others may say “Amen” because they are making that prayer their own.

5. Receiving the Word: Someone might read a verse and then make a short declaration about it. Others say “Amen” as an expression of receiving and agreeing with the truth.

6. Spiritual exercise: The Recovery places considerable emphasis on believers exercising their spirit in the meetings rather than remaining passive. Vocal responses—“Amen,” “Praise the Lord,” “Hallelujah,” etc.—are part of that practice.

There is actually a particularly relevant verse:

“For all the promises of God in Him are Yes; therefore also through Him is the Amen to God, unto the glory of God through us.” — 2 Corinthians 1:20, RcV

The Recovery’s understanding of that verse is that Christ Himself is God’s “Yes” to us, and our “Amen” is our response to God through Christ.

Why it can sound like a lot of Amens:

There’s also a cultural/meeting-practice component. In a typical Recovery meeting, people have been trained to respond audibly and frequently. So you might hear:

“The Lord Jesus is so wonderful!”
“Amen!”
“We just want to love Him!”
“Amen!”
“We need to exercise our spirit!”
“Amen!”

And sometimes it can become almost automatic.

That’s worth distinguishing from the biblical principle itself. The New Testament certainly supports corporate verbal affirmation—Paul explicitly says that the other believers should be able to say Amen to someone’s prayer (1 Corinthians 14:16). But the Bible doesn’t prescribe a particular frequency or meeting style for saying it.

So there are really two things going on:

1. Biblical principle: Amen = “Yes, I agree; may it be so,” and it can be a genuine corporate response to the Lord.

2. Recovery culture: frequent audible “Amens” have become one of the characteristic ways that Recovery meetings express corporate participation.

And, frankly, the second can sometimes continue even when the first isn’t happening very consciously. A person can say “Amen” because everyone else just said “Amen.” That doesn’t necessarily mean the practice itself is wrong; it means the spiritual reality behind the practice matters.

Related Bible verses:

“Blessed be Jehovah the God of Israel, From eternity to eternity. And all the people said, Amen, and praised Jehovah.” (1 Chronicles 16:36)

“And Ezra blessed Jehovah the great God; and all the people answered, Amen, Amen, lifting up their hands. And they bowed their heads and worshipped Jehovah with their faces to the ground.” (Nehemiah 8:6)

“Blessed be Jehovah the God of Israel, / From eternity to eternity. / And let all the people say, Amen. / Hallelujah.” (Psalm 106:48)

“Otherwise if you bless with the spirit, how shall he who fills the place of the unlearned in tongues say the Amen at your giving of thanks, since he does not know what you are saying?” (1 Corinthians 14:16)

“For as many promises of God as there are, in Him is the Yes; therefore also through Him is the Amen to God, for glory through us to God.” (2 Corinthians 1:20)

“The grace of the Lord Jesus be with all the saints. Amen.” (Revelation 22:21)

What is the optimal size for a small group? 

It is preferable for a small group to have no more than twelve people. Five or six is the best, seven or eight is fine, and even eight or ten is good. Because we love Him and mean business with Him, we should daily pray, read the Word, learn the truth, see the light, experience Christ, and labor on Christ. Then when we come together, we will have experiences to share, rather than being an “audience” waiting for others to speak.

(On Home Meetings, chapter 1)

Why do we have to know the hymns?

“In order for us to enrich, strengthen, enliven, refresh, and uplift our meetings, we need to use the hymns. We have seen that according to 1 Corinthians 14:26 and Hebrews 10:25, we need both speaking and singing in our meetings. The speaking is not only the speaking of the word of God or the speaking forth of Christ but also the speaking of the hymns. The first item listed by Paul in 1 Corinthians 14:26 is a psalm. A psalm is poetry. In both Ephesians 5:19 and Colossians 3:16, we are charged to speak in hymns. This indicates that the saints in the early Christian meetings used a lot of hymns. Many times we may not be able to find a verse or some verses in the Bible to meet the real need in the meeting, but we can easily find a hymn to meet the need. This is why we have to know the hymns. If we use the hymns adequately and properly in our meetings, they will be uplifted, enlivened, and refreshed.”

(Speaking Christ for the Building Up of the Body of Christ, p. 73)

Quotes by ME Barber

“The requirement to work for the Lord is not to work.”

“Whoever cannot stop working for the sake of God cannot work for the sake of God.”

“Whenever God delays in telling me His will, I find that I still have a disobedient heart and an improper motive within me.”

She often asked brother Nee, “do you love God’s will?” She did not ask, “do you obey His will?”

“The secret to understanding the will of God is that 95% is a matter of submitting to the will of God, and only 5% is a matter of understanding.”

What do you do when the devil knocks at your door?

When I was first saved, I heard a story about a young girl who knew the meaning of victory very well. During the Keswick Convention, a man asked the little girl how she overcame when the devil came to her. She answered, “In the past, if the devil came to knock at my front door, as soon as he knocked, I would say, ‘Don’t come in. Don’t come in.’ But the result was always a failure. Now when the devil knocks at my door, I say, ‘Lord, You open the door for me.’ If the Lord opens the door, and the devil sees the Lord, he will say, ‘Sorry, I came to the wrong door,’ and he will run away.”

(The Overcoming Life, ch. 6)